Are You a Marshmallow Eater or a Dot Connector?
Remember when you were in Kindergarten and the teacher would hand out a paper with dots on it and tell the class to trace the dots and see what you would find. We all did this and suddenly an elephant or a tiger or a tree would appear. Well, we are no longer kids in Kindergarten and the dots we need to connect have not been set out on a plain piece of paper by someone else, but this skill is still extremely important. But now we have to do this on our own. There is even a poem and a book, All I Really Need to Know I learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum which is exactly what I am talking about here - he took the basics we learned back then and applied them to adult life. But what happens now that we are adults is that we may do a fine job of connecting most of the dots, such as how to make a living, how to create and a maintain our relationships, raise our children, be a good citizen, and have a little fun as we go along, because even Kindergart...